A trip down memory lane or Fanny Alley

So, as this year comes to a close, it seems the right time to get nostalgic and misty-eyed about the past. Today I am looking a long way back to days of innocence, when sex was something everyone else seemed to be doing. In fact there are times, in drought periods, when I still think

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A Year Later

Almost a year ago (December 20th, 2013), the Supreme Court of Canada decriminalized prostitution in every part of the country with its ruling in Bedford vs. Canada, which struck down the criminal laws (very similar to those in the UK) which attempted to “control” and “discourage” the sale of sex by making it more difficult

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Watch out, Santa!

Dear Santa (or would you prefer Santa Baby or maybe even SB), I can’t say I’ve been an ‘awful good girl’ – I have probably been an awful bad girl for much of the time, or just plain awful… But if you can see your way clear of rewarding me for some of the good

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Toy Review: Jimmyjane Form 2

Jimmyjane’s Form 2 is an ever-present product on the shelf of every discerning adult shop, so we thought a thorough review well overdue: just what is it about this vibrator that makes it such an attractive item? Perhaps it’s the ever-spinning cogs of the company’s marketing department that make Form 2 such an enduring success,

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Sexcrime

Enjoy this website while you can. In the year 2014, less than half a human generation past the end of a century which saw advances in sexual freedom (both practical and legal) unprecedented in human history, we are now well into an attempt by the powerful to roll it all back to the Victorian Era. 

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Saying something stupid like…

…”Am I wobbling  a lot?” I often think our whole lives are led by what we say – “I do”, “yes, I’ll take the job”, “Ok – I’ll put on the gimp mask”, “go on then – I’ll stay for another drink” etc. etc. Drunken Slut Mum has many moments when she wishes that, rather

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Comment: Ten Reasons Why the New Porn Regulations Must Go

They discriminate against queer, kinky and feminist porn producers. “The restriction against fisting – an important part of authentic queer sexuality – will disproportionately affect producers of queer, lesbian and gay porn. This is undeniably a blow against women and queers, with a transparently sexist emphasis on restricting acts of female sexual power.” They are

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Erotica: After the meeting…

The door slammed and was closely followed by a stream of swearing. Something told me that the meeting hadn’t gone well. And they say men are insensitive. Ida stomped into the kitchen with a face like thunder. I was going to ask her how it went but one glance told me this would be a

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Event Review: Brighton Club Spank presents The Grand Age Of Corsets

Splashing through muddy puddles in my heels I wasn’t convinced that a rugby club was the best place to hold – as Club Spank calls it – a ‘fluffy fetish’ event. Even though it was just on the outskirts of Brighton, initially the (almost) countryside venue seemed an inconvenience, since missing the minibus organised by the

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Review: The Institute of Sexology Exhibition, Wellcome Collection, by Paul Burns

London, November 2014 to September 2015 Large doses of quackery, moral humbug and pseudo-science slowly yielding to reason sums up the history of the study of sexuality, the topic that The Institute of Sexology Exhibition is concerned with. The items displayed span the last century and a half of the discipline, an era divided by

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All Wet

Ignorance and misinformation are the norms in mainstream articles about sex work, especially when the author and/or sources have prohibitionist inclinations. But since misinformation constantly rains down like a tropical monsoon from the vast cloud of obfuscation (formed from equal parts of prohibition, secrecy and stigma) which perpetually hangs over the demimonde, that even sex

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In the zone

Ever had the feeling that the bus you were hoping to catch just drove by without even stopping and opening its doors? I mean in a metaphorical sense, not when the damn bus is too full for any more passengers (which used to be a regular Saturday night occurrence many moons ago). I first heard

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Toy Review: Rabbits – Soraya, Whooper, Bondara Silicone, Amorino, Tingly Timmy

Soraya by Lelo Ably pipping its Lelo counterpart the Ina 2 to the post, the Soraya is worth the price you pay for a toy from the Lelo luxury brand (surprisingly this is not always the case, as demonstrated by some of their more ‘experimental’ products of late such as the much derided Pino). Smooth

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Conflation Creates Criminality

Squeeze human nature into the straitjacket of criminal justice and crime will appear.  -  Karl Kraus Criticism is distinguished from insult by its intent; the former is an analysis and can even be constructive, while the latter is simply an attack.  So while the two may be indistinguishable to the irrational person (who nowadays is

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Toy Review: Lelo Soraya vs Lelo Ina 2

From one of the top-selling luxury brands of ‘lifestyle’ toys, Lelo’s Soraya has made waves at Cliterati towers thanks to its flexible clit-stim shaft and all-round effectiveness. Not only does it pack a fair punch on the G-spot and the clitoral areas, but the two approaches can be isolated and used separately, at the same

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Ode to my buzz / Protest song

My buzzer’s like a ‘zz zz’ noise That’s perfectly in tune Oh, my buzz is like the ecstasy That turns me to a lune   As great are you my buzzing friend So much in bliss am I And I will switch you on, my pal ‘Til all your power has died   ‘Til all

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Book Review: Reaper’s Stand

I very much enjoyed the previous books in this series, so looked forward to reading this one on its release. Reaper’s Stand is the story of Reese ‘Picnic’ Hayes – he’s the president of the Reapers Motorcycle Club, so we’ve met him in the previous books, and he is, of course, a very pivotal character. He’s had a

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Erotica: I Think Of You by Cheeky Minx

I think of you. I think of you and crave the warmth of your fingers trailing across the coolness of my skin, my body yearning to draw deep into my bones your heat, to have you wind yourself about me, your strong arms around me as we slide together gently into the shadows and the

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Book Review: A Forbidden Rumspringa

I was totally intrigued by the unique premise of Keira Andrews’ novel, A Forbidden Rumspringa – an Amish M/M erotic romance. I’m glad to say I wasn’t disappointed. A Forbidden Rumspringa tells the story of Isaac Byler – an 18 year old man living in the strict Amish settlement of Zebulon, Minnesota. Isaac works on his family’s farm,

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Feminists and Other Puritans

Every time one reads an article that doesn’t mindlessly parrot “sex trafficking” hysteria or some other aspect of the anti-sex movement, yet isn’t written by a sex worker or ally, one can be sure there will be an obligatory sentence about how it’s “surprising” or “paradoxical” or whatever that anti-sex carceral feminists (to use my

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Erotica: Learning the ropes.

While I don’t recommend it for educational purposes, I do sometimes feel sorry for those who don’t have a bit of porn in their lives. It can be a wonderful source of new alleys to explore. Our current alley of choice was rope. We both liked the aesthetics and the feel but, unfortunately, the practice

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Can you get a bird in the hand if you are too far in the bush?

A male acquaintance recently joked that the current fashion for an enormous foliage of facial hair is rendering beards the status of appliances, as opposed to light chin coverage. Ever other guy over 18 seems to be trying out a facial garden. And we aren’t talking a neatly trimmed lawn or ‘goatee’ here, but a

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