“I was sad to discover I didn’t belong with the kinky people. In some ways, the parties were magical: a place devoid of judgment where the conversation about where you live and what you do happened well after a “Can I tie you up and spank you?” request. But they all knew their limits. And until I learn how to properly communicate mine — both in and out of the bedroom or dungeon — I’m much safer sticking to parties where my clothes stay on.”
My ’50 Shades’ sex party, Salon.com