I've recently started sleeping with a new boyfriend but although I lost my virginity two years ago, I'm still very inexperienced. I've only ever had sex in the misionary position and even then I feel a bit awkward as I never know what to do. I just don't know how to move.
I really want to try some new positions especially girl on top but I'm too nervous as I feel I wouldn't know how to please us both. Can you please give me some tips about what to do.

Cliterati repliesDon't worry about being inexperienced. Sex with a new partner is about learning what you both like together so there's no need to be insecure. Talk to your partner and ask what he'd like. He'll probably be happy to experiment.When it comes to going on top, it's not that complicated. Just get your partner aroused - and make sure he's got you turned on too - then kneel astride him, facing him. Start by inserting just the tip of his penis inside you, then move slowly down his penis until he's fully inside you. Then, simply raise and lower yourself at a pace that suits you both. If your legs start to ache, lean forward on to your hands and use them to help support you. Your partner may well raise his hips to meet your thrusts. The further you lean forward, the more stimulation your clitoris will get. Indeed, you may enjoy lying flat on top of him and 'grinding' against him.Alternatively, leaning back - resting on you arms - will stimulate your G-spot so if that's something that you enjoy (and if you haven't tried it, it's worth giving it a go) then you may prefer it.Generally, no matter what the position, moving your hips to meet your partner's thrusts should meet with a good respose. Similarly, flexing your vaginal muscles around him is something that you may both enjoy.You may find a video like The Lovers' Guide to Sexual Positions (written by one of Cliterati's editors) useful. If you watch it with your partner, you can both try new positions together which has got to be a fun way to spend an evening.