Recently my boyfriend and I have discovered anal sex. We've been together for 3 years and have recently got more into the BDSM lifestyle, this includes having progressively rougher anal sex. I was just wondering, is there anything we're doing that could cause me, or him, harm and are there any tips that you could give us to make things safer for both of us?
Clitarati repliesThe Most important thing to remember when it comes to anal sex is that unlike the vagina it does't secrete it's own lubrication.In order to prevent painful friction, anal sex requires lots of water-based or silicon-based lubricant on both the penis and anus.Also it is important to use a strong condom in order to prevent the transmission of infections, and always change the condom if anal sex is followed by vaginal sex.Do not insert objects that are too big for the anus and if you experience any bleeding or discomfort please visit your GP who will advise you on further anal sex safety.
