The Gay Man and the Tantric Art of Yoni Massage. By Seb Cox

In Tantra, the man's prostate is his sacred spot. The vagina is the sacred part of the female body. The tantric word for vagina is Yoni, which means "sacred space" or "sacred temple." It is to be adored, cherished and worshipped. The Yoni massage is a sensuous and caring experience. It is probably more taoist than tantric. It is an emotionally and spiritual experience. Anyone can give a Yoni Massage, even a gay man. Many women excel at giving themselves one.

There is no pressure, no pressure to do any thing but relax and give or recieve pleasure. The purpose is not to bring the woman to orgasm, BUT TO relax...RELAX, RELAX, BIG DEEP BREATHS, HOLD THEM IN , PLEASURE THE CLIT AND BREATHE OUT. Focus on relaxation without trying to reach a goal. The purpose for the gay man is to touch a beautiful woman in a totally non threating situation.To prepare both the woman and the gay man should bathe together. This helps particularily if the woman has a beatiful shaved pussy, and can help both to relax and become intimate. Simple touching is a good starting point. As you both feel relaxed you can begin to explore. The gay man should do what he does best before the ritual i.e. lighting scented candles, playing soft music and keeping the room beautifully tidy and warm. Make sure that there is little to no possibility of interruption, especially from the woman's husband. Before beginning the massage, the gay man should prepare himself, gell his hair, put on calvin klein underwear and perfume. No, he does not need to take a douche. Gaze into the woman's eyes, and relax. The woman should refrain from giggling and feel herself becumming moist. This is a type of Tantric foreplay in which the couple forms an emotional and spiritual bond. When both parties are ready for the massage, the woman lies on her back with one pillow under her head and another under her hips to elevate her pelvis. She bends her knees and opens her legs to expose her beautiful pussy, or Yoni. The gay man should sit comfortably between the woman's legs with his legs crossed. Prior to any physical contact, both partners perform simple (Tantric) breathing exercises. Big breaths in, hold them in, pleasure the clit, and big breathe out. The gay man should bring his face directly in front of the woman's moistening pussy and breath directly on to it, withoiut actaully kissing it. He should contiue with this part ofthe ritual for about 10 minutes. Eventually he should become aware of the woman breathing in unison with his "pussy worship breathing. This unison should be maintaiined throughout the entire experience.The massage begins with other parts of the woman's body to encourage her to relax. The gay man gently but firmly massages her legs, thighs, stomach and arms before venturing toward the breasts. Use the same breathing exercise that you used for the pussy worship to adore the woman's breasts. The gay man should gently put the nipples in his mouth and carress them. After about 10 - 15 minutes gradually breathe again all the way down, all the way down to that moistening cunt (vagina). Next, the gay man applies a lubricant to the outside on the woman's genitals. This can be a warm scented oil which the gay man has conviently picked up at a visit to the Body Shop. The oil should be very generously and sensuously poured over the Pussy and cover the entire outside.Now it's very important for the gay man to take things very slowly. Both partners should keep as much eye to eye contact as possible and continue to breathe in unison. Any part of the massage that causes discomfort or pain for the woman should be skipped. During the massage, the woman should massage her breasts for further stimulation. If at any time during the massage the woman has an orgasm, you may need to begin the massage ritual again. It is the woman's choice. Many women find that continuing with the massage produces several orgasms, each with increasing intensity. In Tantra, this is called "riding the wave." If the woman wishes to avoid orgasm, breathing deeply and relaxing as much as possible can help to at least postpone climax. With the right hand the gay man massages the outer lips of the woman's genitals, commonly known as the mound. With his thumb and index finger, the gay man gently squeezes each lip of the Yoni, sliding his fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Then, he carefully repeats this process with each inner lip of the pussy. He varies the pressure and speed of his touch according to his woman's preferences. He then gently strokes the woman's clitoris in a circular motion, clockwise and counter-clockwise. Next, he squeezes the clitoris between his thumb and index finger. Then, the gay man inserts his middle finger into the Yoni. Much time is spent inside the vagina exploring and massaging. Varying the speed and depth of his finger, the gay man feels inside the Yoni up, down and around. With his finger and palm pointing upward inside his woman'ss vagina, the gay man bends his finger to make contact with the woman's G-spot, known as the "sacred spot" in Tantra. The gay man can also insert his ring finger into the vagina. Some women enjoy the increased pressure of two fingers. Other options during this step include the gay man stimulating the woman's clitoris with his thumb and gently inserting his little finger into her anus while his middle finger (and possibly ring finger) remain inside her pussy. The massage continues until the woman decides it is time to stop. Other sexual activity may follow., especially if the woman's partner turns up. Don't worry tell him you are gay. You may have to proove it by sucking his cock. The tantric art of Lingham Sucking. Two lessons for the price of one.
By Seb Cox