I would just like to comment about the subject of starring in your own porno video.My husband Rick and me often video ourselves in action but as someone stated in a previous post, the action and close ups can be very restrictive because the camera is static and therefore you tend to stay in a limited area which the camera is covering.We entirely agree with the comment to get someone to do the filming for you so they can get the best shots,angles,zoom ins and close ups.

We took the decision to involve a third party but did not want anyone we knew, or who knew us,also agreed it would be a "one off" and in a neutral location so the stranger would not know where we lived.The nearest large town to us is about six miles away, so Rick looked through the telephone directory,local paper and even the internet for an amateur photographer/camcorder enthusiast in that area. You'd be surprised by how many camera clubs and photographic societies that there are about.

After a few delicate but tactful phone calls, we obtained two names and numbers to try. The first was a mobile number and the guy didn't beat about the bush saying he wanted £100, would do it at our place and he would use his own equipment,Rick politely told him to piss off! One thing I must point out now is that it is VITAL you use your own video camera unless you want your film being copied and sold around the pubs for £15 a time.

The next call proved unsuccessful,with the guy being a genuine amateur enthustiast, although he did give a number for a fellow club member that might be worth a try.

With this call we hit the jackpot. His name was Tom, he had a very friendly voice, agreed to use our camcorder and best of all, when we suggested meeting and booking a hotel room, said it wouldn't be needed as we could come to his place.

When the subject of money came up, Tom was a bit vague and hinted that a small fee would be OK if there might be other "perks". Rick thanked him and promised to get in touch just as soon as he had the chance to discuss it with me.

So basically we encountered three types of enthusiast; the first who is only interested in making money using his own camera, copying it and selling it on to who knows where and charging you for the previlage. The second is someone who is in very short supply these days,a genuine guy. Lastly we have the kind who really gets his kicks from watching and just being there seeing others fucking and sucking and will join in if invited. To him it is a great weekend hobby whether he makes a few quid or not.

Rick asked how I felt about Tom`s proposal and I said that I was up for it if Rick was sure this is what he wanted. Tom was duly rang and a meeting for the following Saturday evening was arranged. He said he lived on his own and gave Rick his address and would expect us about six.

We drove over and parked the car around the corner so Tom wouldn't know the make or the number. Secrecy was what we wanted and what we intended to achieve it.

The house was a semi in a decent part of town,not the seedy back street I had joked to Rick about. Tom welcomed and invited us in to the lounge,we introduced ourselves as Rick and Mandy sat down together on the sofa then Tom suggested a drink and asked if we wanted to watch a porn video to get us in the mood. Tom said he was 55 and recently devorced after 30 years of marriage, we told him we were both 35.

After an hour of drinking, chatting, laughing and porn watching we were now really in the mood for the action. The evening turned out to be a success. We got our video,kept our anonymity,Tom got his kicks and he suggested we might do it again sometime. We gave a vague reply knowing it would not happen and said goodbye.

If anyone is really interested what went on in the film and with Tom, I will post on the stories page if requested.

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