I am male and live with a very attractive young lady but occasionally I want to shag a complete stranger in the park, good and hard. Is this normal?

Cliterati repliesFantasies are fine. Most people have them, whether they're attached or single. The 'zipless fuck' - having sex with someone who you've never met without even exchanging names - is a very common fantasy so don't feel bad for thinking about it. The great thing about fantasy is that even in a relationship, you can still have dirty thoughts.A brief word of warning; this fantasy sounds like one that should really remain as a fantasy and not get lived out. It's very unlikely that you'd find a willing stranger; it may happen in films but in reality it's incredibly rare. And (serious mode) having sex with someone against their will is rape, so you're a bit stuffed.Having said that, you may want to share this fantasy with your partner. Maybe she'd be prepared to role-play this with you; go to the park, pretend not to know you and get all hot and heavy when you approach? Obviously, you can get into trouble for having sex outdoors but if you're careful, make sure no-one else is around and most importantly, she's up for it, maybe she could be the 'stranger' and help you make your dream come true.