Web: One Pound Johnny

One Pound Johnny Club is a fab idea that we first encountered courtesy of their amusingly smutty video. All we can say is don’t watch it if you have a bukkake phobia. This kinky vid was created to drive awareness of a new safe sex site. The One Pound Johnny Club site explains: “We’ve partnered with Mates

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Erotic Writing Tips: the Pen is Mightier Than the Sword

Image courtesy of freedigitalphotos.net Fancy writing erotica but not sure where to start? Cliterati is open to submissions from anyone, regardless of gender, sexuality, (dis)ability or preference. If it’s safe, sane and consensual, we will consider it for the site. Nervous about sharing your most intimate desires? Stick to a few basic guidelines and you’ll be

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Knowing a Secret, Should I Tell?

Hi Susan, I’m gay but my oldest friend is a straight guy – we get on really well, have lots of interests in common and I also like his wife. Last week when she was away for the weekend I invited him out for a night on the town with me and my friends –

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Will He Ever Be Mine?

Dear Susan, I’ve been with Tom for about a year now, and knew from the start that he was in an unhappy marriage, but he was staying because of his little girl. I’ve never nagged him about that, never tried to persuade him to leave, even though I wanted him to. In the end things

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Sexual Health Week: Only Sluts Get STDs

  The fab Laci Green busts some of the myths around STDs.  

Features: Time to Get Out the Wellies by Jemima101

I don’t know where you stand on female ejaculation* (the Domly one would probably recommend at a safe distance unless you want to clean your trousers) but I squirt. That is during sex I can produce large volumes of…well that is where the jury is out. Some say urine, others, who have more practical experience

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Book Extract: Friendly Fetish

Until 50 Shades of Grey, kinky sex was taboo. For many people the word fetish conjured up images of weedy men in rubber suits, whip-wielding women in thigh high boots and seedy clubs full of people doing unspeakable things to each other with strangely shaped devices. Now, millions of people have discovered that there is

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Wise Council From Susan Quilliam: I Should Have Spoken Sooner

Dear Susan, As a teenager I was sexually abused for several years by my cousin. I hated it, but didn’t want to tell my parents as I knew they would worry. I do feel I’ve got over it, with the help of good friends and by seeing a counsellor, and no longer look back in

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Features: Toys on Tour – Holiday Sex Toy Tips

If your lucky enough to be going away this summer, there’s no need to take a holiday from your sex toys too. Sex retailer, Bondara.com has produced a guide for travelers who want to take their toys away without having problems with strict baggage restrictions and security searches. To make sure your luggage doesn’t give

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: I Lack Confidence in the Bedroom

Dear Susan, My problem is that I’m absolutely lacking in confidence in the bedroom. It’s really, really bad – I’ve never been able to make love without the lights off, and when it comes to trying anything but straight missionary position I totally seize up. I certainly can’t take the initiative and even freeze sometimes

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Features: The Real Happily Ever After by Julia Armstrong

Relationships offer us limitless possibilities: the magic of truthful one-on-one authentic dialogue is that it’s where we grow. However, while fairy stories and films seemed to give us the possibility of happily ever after, the truth of relationships can often be far more painful and challenging than merely galloping off into the sunset with your

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: How Can I Fix My Friendship?

Dear Susan, I think I’ve just completely blown out my best friend. She told me in confidence that she was seeing her (married) boss – then over a bottle or two of wine, I let that slip to other friends. Turns out one of them knows the boss’s wife, all hell’s been let loose, and

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Am I Mad For Cheating?

Dear Susan, I love my husband very much but frankly our sex life is dead. He’s a lovely man, kind and loyal, but we have sex only once every few weeks and the strain is getting to me. So I’ve started a fling with a new guy at work who I know doesn’t want a

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Am I Weird For Fancying Pregnant Women?

Hi Susan, I think I may be a bit weird – I’m a guy in his twenties who finds pregnant ladies really, really sexy. If I see one in the street I can’t stop looking at her, and I’m sometimes tempted to go up and ask her out. And yes, I know that’s ridiculous but

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Wise Counsel from Susan Quilliam: I Can’t Come Through Sex

Dear Susan Here’s the thing. I can climax easily on my own and have been able to since I was twelve or thirteen – just slip my fingers down there, touch my clit and I’m away. I have more difficulty climaxing through intercourse unless I help myself, but I’m cool with that and – up

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Sex Ed Songs: Boyfriend’s Girlfriend by Must Be Tuesday

Polyamory can be hard for people to understand. Luckily, Must Be Tuesday explains it brilliantly in her song Boyfriend’s Girlfriend. Enjoy.

Sex Ed Songs: Do You Take it by The Wet Spots

  As the creator’s of amazing sex ed comedy DVD, Sing Your Way to Better Sex, who could be better to launch our Sex Ed Songs section than The Wet Spots? Do You Take It? is packed with useful bum sex tips – and a good way to introduce the topic of anal to your

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Wise Counsel from Susan Quilliam: Heading for Holiday Hell?

Hi Susan, Emma and I are going on holiday in a few weeks to the Seychelles (dream!) and I have a suspicious feeling that she may be planning something special – like a marriage proposal. I love her very much but over the past few weeks I’ve been having doubts and I can see this

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Wise Counsel from Susan Quilliam: How Can I Help Her With Her Traumatic Past?

Dear Susan My girlfriend and I recently took a trip back to see her family up North. We’d only been there a day or so when she started getting quite upset, and has now told me she’s started remembering some very nasty childhood incidents when a close family member came into her bedroom at night.

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Stuck in an Argument Rut

Dear Susan, My partner and I seem to have got into a rut of arguing about everything, even trivial and tiny issues. We met about a year ago, moved in together more or less immediately and at first it was fine but now we even get into rows about which setting to put the washing

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Will His Passion Go Soft?

Hi Susan, My new boyfriend is a lot older than me (old enough to be my Dad, but let’s not go there). And sometimes he finds it hard to get an erection – the first time’s always OK, but he can’t do much after that. It doesn’t worry me at all right now – he’s

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: I Caught My In Laws Having Sex

Hi Susan, OMG! My parents-in-law were staying for the weekend and when I took them a morning cup of tea, I walked in on them having sex. It sounds comical, but it was actually very embarrassing. We had a very awkward breakfast, they left much earlier than planned, and we spent the rest of the

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Does My Boss Fancy Me?

Dear Susan, I think – but am not sure – that my boss is coming on to me. She’s extremely attractive, and I’d love to say yes – but am I misreading the signals? We’re all off to a conference next week and it would be the ideal opportunity for a night of passion. How

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Termination Troubling

Dear Susan, When I fell pregnant last autumn, it just wasn’t the right time. Matt and I both agreed we wanted to wait until we were settled, got our careers sorted, had a good income, so I terminated my pregnancy. No problem. End of story. But I can’t seem to put it behind me, and

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