Silver fox versus young buck

This post is from a couple of years ago, but the question never gets old – would you prefer an older or younger lover? ‘Age before beauty’, ‘youth is wasted on the young’, ‘you can’t teach an old dog new tricks’, ‘youth’s a stuff will not endure’… etc. Is there no end to the number

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Inge

When I’m 53 I want to be like Inge. She is my 50-something role model. With her toned, tanned body and dazzling white smile, she is a picture of health and happiness. But after 20 years of teaching yoga, she has much to smile about. Not for her the stress and mundanity of an office

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Is it possible to be a tomboy in your twenties?

This article is the first in a series about “tomboy” and was originally posted as a blog on Straight Out Of Crompton. Use the #tomboy to follow and join the discussion on Twitter.  Over the last few months I’ve been thinking a lot about the definition of “tomboy”. It started as a dinner conversation with some girlfriends, each

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Columns: Silver fox versus young buck

‘Age before beauty’, ‘youth is wasted on the young’, ‘you can’t teach an old dog new tricks’, ‘youth’s a stuff will not endure’… etc. Is there no end to the number of things people have to say about youth and age. Following last week’s musings I am looking at whether it’s better to wind up with

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Will His Passion Go Soft?

Hi Susan, My new boyfriend is a lot older than me (old enough to be my Dad, but let’s not go there). And sometimes he finds it hard to get an erection – the first time’s always OK, but he can’t do much after that. It doesn’t worry me at all right now – he’s

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