Erotica: ‘X’ from Blacksilk

Last time I introduced you to the first in the series of fantasy diaries that I and my then-lover Fractal kept while we were apart. Or, at least, the first that I wrote? Today’ll you’ll get to see the first fantasy he ever wrote to me. Again, it’s by no means polished publishing material, and

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Books: Unmastered – A Book On Desire, Most Difficult To Tell by Katherine Angel

A fascinating book looking – as the subtitle says – at a topic that can be very, very difficult to discuss: female desire. It’s difficult for many reasons: because ‘good girls’, apparently, aren’t supposed to possess sexual desire at all; because feminists who admit to having certain desires are often shamed (whether by others or

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Erotica: Punishment in Black by Blacksilk

This post deserves a little explanation. It’s not erotica as such, or at least it was never intended that way, but a written fantasy. Whilst I was away for five months in Japan years ago, my then-lover Fractal came up with the idea of keeping a diary of our fantasies and emailing the entries to each other. We’d been

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Books: Collar Me in Paris

Collar Me in Paris is the story of what happens when Clay goes on vacation with his wife, Bianca, and the rest of her family. Each year, Bianca and her brothers have been put into pairs and sent off on a challenge. And each year Bianca is blamed by the brother she was put with for

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Books: Taking Over Me

Taking Over Me is book one in Sara Brookes’ Geek Kink series from Ellora’s Cave. Based on this, I’ll definitely be reading the others. This novel is the tale of Allison, a self-confessed computer geek, and Patrick, the latest barista in town. When Allison heads to the new coffee shop, Perfect Shot, and sees Patrick behind the counter,

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Books: Come Monday

Come Monday is the first book in Mari Carr’s Wild Irishseries. It tells the story of the oldest child in the Collins family, Keira, who took the place of her mother when she passed away, helping her father and bringing up her siblings. As a result she put her own life and dreams on hold. Now, at

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Erotica: Forty Kinds of Penance

  Wednesday was confession day. James was away on business that week so Debbie had to make her weekly confession by Skype. She undressed, arranged the webcam attached to the top of her monitor to film her as she knelt in naked humility and selected ‘Lordandmaster’ on the menu bar. She clicked with the mouse

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Books: No Ordinary Love Story

No Ordinary Love Story is the follow up to the phenomenally popular The Diary of a Submissive. In the first book, we learned how Sophie discovered her submissive side and then started to explore it. In this book, we find out what happened next. Sophie’s previous D/s relationship didn’t work out and she’s feeling hurt and vulnerable.

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BDSM: Collar Me by Blacksilk

There’s something about a collar. Restraint and ownership delicately balanced with a fizzing freedom. An intimate act displayed in public. Leather wrapped around your neck can bring feelings of danger and security all at once. I’d wanted a collar for a long time. Now I own several. A black PVC one, a plain black leather

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Bondage – how early is too early?

Dear Susan   Quick question. If a guy suggests tying you up on a first date, and you really want to do it, is there anything wrong with that? I think not, my friend says I’m mad. What’s your view?   Simi Dear Simi I’m with your friend on this. It’s not that there’s anything

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Book Extract: The Cage by Louise Friday

  I‘m not ready to share him yet. These last two weeks are mine and I intend to milk him to the full. My desire for him is too big to allow anyone else in. But I find myself considering the future: a time when he and I have moved beyond the emotion and can

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: I’m a spanking novice

Hi Susan Guess it seems a bit timid on a site like this, but my girlfriend wants me to spank her and I’m not sure I’m up for it. She says her previous partners have done it, but I don’t know where to start. What should I be doing… will it hurt her… how do

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Toy Review – Leather Delights Soft Ball Gag

Disclaimer: I was provided with a free Soft Ball Gag by Leather Delights in exchange for my honest review. For more pictures, read my original review on Being Blacksilk. Leather Delights are a family business specialising in fetish leatherwork for the kinky community. I chose to review their Soft Ball Gag and it arrived very swiftly indeed and in the

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Erotica: Acting on Instructions by Blacksilk

Red is a vixen, Red is a flirt Red told me to go to him and rip off his shirt Red is a siren, Red is a tease Red told me to take him and bring him to his knees He was playing D&D and I was in my bedroom somewhat bored. I say bored, “bored” was

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Erotica: Wax Dummy by Blacksilk

Just a few weeks back, I did a review of basically some blimmin’ ordinary candles, otherwise known as the Fetish Fantasy Sensual Hot Wax kit. They were, for all intents and purposes, just ordinary candles. But it did mean I got a nice excuse to play with some wax for once. We don’t do wax play often,

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Books: All You Can Eat

All You Can Eat is my first Emma Holly novel – and I’m hooked! Right from the very beginning, this book grips you and doesn’t let go, not even when you’ve finished it. Frankie Smith is having a bad time – her boyfriend has just dumped her and she found a dead body behind her cafe.

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Book Extract: The Perfect Dom

“Spank me. Is that an invitation?” Shit. Mia had completely forgotten about him. Her flatmate, Katy, had asked if it was okay if her brother could stay on their sofa for a couple of nights. His own place was being fitted with a new bathroom and conditions over there weren’t exactly tantamount to hygiene. Mia had

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Toy Review: Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Kit

Disclaimer: I was provided with a free Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Kit by UberKinky in exchange for my honest review. For more pictures and a video of the toy in action, read my original review on Being Blacksilk. The Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Kit is an e-stim (electric stimulation) kit for beginners, sold by UberKinky, which sends small shocks through

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Books: Awakening

Awakening by Elene Sallinger is another title that’s been compared to Fifty Shades of Grey because of the BDSM element in the book. However, the huge difference is that the female character in this book is actually a submissive – or wants to be, anyway. At the beginning of the book we meet Claire, a woman

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Toy Review: Top Three Kinky Valentine’s Day Gifts

Labia Spreader With Stockings If there’s one post that’s been a surprise hit on my irregularvoice blog it’s the review I wrote for this very special hosiery, where stockings are held up by clipping them to the labia rather than a suspender belt. Economical and exceedingly slutty they leave nothing to the imagination – in a

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Toy Review: Mawa Klamps

Disclaimer: I was provided with four free Mawa Klamps by UberKinky in exchange for my honest review. For more pictures and a video of the toy in action, read my original review on Being Blacksilk. Mawa Klamps, sold by UberKinky, seem a novel way to sell clamps for nipple play and other uses: individual clamps, packaged in a sealed, clear

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Books: Meeting Her Match

I’m a huge fan of Justine Elyot’s work, which is why it’s crazy it’s taken me so long to get around to reading this book. Having read it, I recommend that nobody else should delay – it’s a fantastic read. It tells the story of Cherry, a woman whose submissive side refuses to stay hidden

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Columns: Disney for Deviants by Blacksilk

Or, Defiant Men in Distress If there’s one thing I learned fairly quickly and with great certainty as I became a sexual being: I love kink. I get off on BDSM and specifically I’m a subby little slut. I love being tied up, I love being used and abused. And, of course, I love seeing

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Books: The Prince

If you’ve read my reviews of The Siren and The Angel, you’ll know how eager I was to get my hands on this book. And just when I thought Tiffany Reisz’s books couldn’t get any better – she released The Prince. This is by far my favourite of the series so far – I’d give it six out of

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