Shaken but not stirred – Museu de l’Erotica, Barcelona

“I’m not sure about going in here,” said new man, “I already feel horny, so this is going to make me even worse.” He was always horny. I had persuaded him to come with me to Barcelona’s Museu de l’Erotica – it was on the list of things to do that I had drawn up

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Wise Counsel From Susan Quilliam: Does she prefer her vibe to me?

Dear Susan I’ve just started going out with my girlfriend, and was a bit startled when she told me she uses sex toys a lot – her bedside drawer is full of vibrators. I’m completely unused to partners who use additions and wonder if that means she’s going to be unhappy with my performance or

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Sex Science: Why the Movie Hysteria Gets Its Vibrator History Wrong

Given my profession as a dildographer, I should be elated that Hysteria,  a movie about the history of the vibrator, is premiering in the U.S. in two weeks. Although I’m thrilled that a legitimate studio produced a movie on the subject, I’m also frustrated that an inaccurate and unfortunate myth about the vibrator is being perpetuated. The movie details the invention

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Welcome to Cliterati

The web is full of smut but there’s very little out there for the discerning woman. Forget sites with endless pop-up windows that charge outrageous sums of money. Forget endless pictures of women with Photoshopped bodies and ever-welcoming genitals.