In these credit-crunch evenings, more and more couples are staying in and making their own fun. And finding a new use for their video cameras.

The number of couples filming themselves in the bedroom is increasing. Sadly the quality is not; harsh lighting, grainy footage and unflattering angles make the viewing cringeworthy or comedy, but rarely erotic.

But that needn’t be the case according to the makers of Make Your Own Erotic Videos. They claim that with a few tips anyone can make a classy, sensual film – and have a lot of fun in the process.

To be quite honest, I never thought I would ever say this, but, yes, I think it is. Up until now, maybe I’ve been naïve but I’ve never had a serious problem with what genre I write in. But, now, unfortunately, I do.

Vibrator, tissues, feathers…if lubricant is missing from your goodie draw, or your sex life, then you’re missing out!

While reading through your site I started to get the feeling that I wanted to contribute something in return for what others had shared. I thought a while and decided that I'd tell you how I discovered vibrators and orgasms.

Comments in the media today on the teachers' stance on teenage pregnacies, the Family Planning Association and the "politically correct" strikes a chord with me. For so many years we have been downtrodden and demoralised about the state of our children, their wilful asking for things they know their parents cannot afford etc. etc. They have liaisons that we know nothing about and even pregnancies that we could not prevent.

The Gay Man and the Tantric Art of Yoni Massage. By Seb Cox

In Tantra, the man's prostate is his sacred spot. The vagina is the sacred part of the female body. The tantric word for vagina is Yoni, which means "sacred space" or "sacred temple." It is to be adored, cherished and worshipped. The Yoni massage is a sensuous and caring experience. It is probably more taoist than tantric. It is an emotionally and spiritual experience. Anyone can give a Yoni Massage, even a gay man. Many women excel at giving themselves one.

Do you believe that you have the right to decide what you watch on TV? Paul Tavener from the Campaign for Censor Free TV thinks so, as do most members of the public, according to recent polls. Unfortunately the current television regulator (the ITC) takes a very different view. They believe that they have the right to decide what is appropriate for you and other adults to watch on TV regardless of your opinion or the public’s wishes. Consequently explicit sex is not and has never been broadcast on any channel at any time in the UK.

The 1960s, were a time of Flower Power, Free Love, the Age of Promiscuity and the start of The Sexual Revolution. The contraceptive pill became available for women and our ties to the kitchen sink started to dissolve. Were we to become the sexual predators instead of men?

I would just like to comment about the subject of starring in your own porno video.My husband Rick and me often video ourselves in action but as someone stated in a previous post, the action and close ups can be very restrictive because the camera is static and therefore you tend to stay in a limited area which the camera is covering.We entirely agree with the comment to get someone to do the filming for you so they can get the best shots,angles,zoom ins and close ups.

Monogamy is one of those things that are a matter of personal choice and morality. I have friends who would consider their partner kissing another woman as grounds for divorce. Others have told me that as long as their other halves wear protection, they have no particular problem if they sleep with other women. Yet others have told me, in confidence, of course, that they are sure that their men are cheating, but as long as they don’t really know, then it’s OK.

When I talk about my long-term relationship, the immediate reaction that most people have is that the other half and I have been together so long that we are probably no longer having sex. They believe that after being together for thirteen years, we are probably curling up at night with a cup of cocoa and a good book. However, nothing could be further from the truth!

Contraception is the bane of many a womanÂ’s life, although we have come along way from earlier centuries when everything from tar (to block the upper cervix) and lime juice were the only options it is still fraught with difficulty from health worries to unwanted pregnancy

I had my drink spiked (with rohypnol - the date-rape drug) on Friday night when I was out with my partner and a group of friends at The Wellington Club in Knightsbridge . One minute I was fine, talking to a friend, the next I was tottering around, feeling really ill and bouncing off the walls to get to the loo where it took all my strength and will power not to pass out.

Sudden and inexplicable pain after sex? As cliterati investigates it's unlikely to be that your partner has some terrible lurgy but may be caused by an intolerance towards condoms and other sex products.

Cliterati is pleased to welcome a new columnist - the fun, feisty, fierce and always rational Dr Strange Bird. Read her views on women, punk and pure unadulterated hussydom, then decide for yourself - do you have clit?

This site is supposed to cater for female sexuality yet its layout is a precise copy of men´s sex sites. Men´s very disturbing sex fantasies, as projected on the net and in porn flics, ludicrously sets the standard when women tries to create something on their own.

I am a straight woman and for me the male is the object. And the more the merrier. I and many women like me really get off on watching men having sex, performing in front of me to please me and get me aroused before I join in. Does this scare you?

It´s funny how "lesbianism" has become an extension of male sexuality in porn, but a woman wanting to watch men is absurdly taboo and non-existent in porn.

Your section for Bisexuality is all two women and one man as if you catered for men, never two men having sex and one woman getting off. Nor is there a "gay" section.

Why? Are you really men?

Coming out can be one of the most difficult things in a gay or lesbian person’s life. You may be planning to tell your parents, close family, friends or colleagues - just one or two, or all of them. It doesn’t always go well but it can be the start of getting rid of the secrecy and any feelings you may have of embarrassment or guilt. Use this checklist to help yourself prepare for coming out.

Sex is a normal and healthy part of life but because of the intimacy and general squelchiness involved, it can also spread infections. There are various Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) that can be passed between sexual partners. Here's a rough guide to all the nastiness around with tips on how to avoid getting a dose!

Ever keen to get feedback, we were pleased to get the following comment through about our feature on safe sex.
"I'm very disapointed and saddened. I've just read the little article about condoms, and how everyone should be using 'em. Bollocks! If you're in a long term relationship (with no STIs) and the chick is on the pill, I say rejoice in the incomparable pleasure of flesh-on-flesh. This scenario wasn't even mentioned. Hopefully this will spark-off some interesting and stimulating debate, and not just be decried from the parapets like some mangy soothsayer seeking shelter for the night at an inhospitable castle in Bavaria.
Love, n-s.
p.s. I can't wait for the male pill.

The Pill - a wonderful invention for those who can take it. For heavy periods you get advised to go on The Pill. For Light periods you get advised to go on Pill. It seems it is the miracle cure for all womanly problems - but be warned!